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5 ways to increase inner beauty

Increase inner beauty

Who doesn’t want to be more beautiful on the inside? Make more people like you and have less people talk behind your back? Here are 5 tips to increase your inner beauty. I will write an article to increase your outer beauty as well later this week so stay tuned for that.

  1. Be positive even if you aren’t happy about something.
    Nobody likes negative people. Try to be positive, even if there is something negative going on. Don’t complain to much about it and just let it go. Of course this doesn’t apply if there is something serious going on but just minor things like your train being late or something.
  2. Take some time for yourself.
    Take some time in the day to do something for you. Even if you have a pretty full schedule, it’s good to do something you like or relax even if it’s just for 30 minutes or so. Burn a candle and watch a movie or something.
  3. Do not talk about other people behind their back.
    Most of us do this, even if it isn’t ment to be mean. Words often get twisted and may turn into something bad. If you say nothing about other people then it can’t come back to bite you.
  4. Confidence is very attractive.
    Confidence is very powerful, it’s not about how other people see you but how you see yourself. If you are very insecure and shy it’s hard for people to get to know you and be friends with you even though you might be an amazing person. Getting confidence is hard, I know. I could write a whole article about this but the main thing is try to love yourself.
  5. Kindness will be returned
    If you do a favor for someone or listen to them at hard times they will most likely do the same for you. Sadly these days most people won’t do anything for someone else unless they get something in return. A random act of kindness can often have great consequences.
22 Oct 2015 | 5 Comments

Comments

  1. Chami Nguyen says:

    I agree. Be beautiful from the inside and it will have impact on the outside.

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  2. M x K says:

    We loved this post! It’s so refreshing to read something so positive on a Monday morning. Confidence is indeed attractive, but it’s definitely something we have to constantly remind ourselves.

    M x K

  3. yukulicious says:

    I actually don’t think that being beautiful from the inside will stop people from talking behind your back… because you’re not at fault in a situation like that, they are.

    Some people probably feel intimidated or whatever by you anyway or even more when you appear self-confident. Some people are just generally frustrated with themselves and their lives and even if there is nothing negative about you, if they want to talk bad about you, they will.

    Other than that I generally think that we should try to be the best version of ourselves for our own sake. On the long run getting people to like you might even end in you acting a certain way to impress others, though your own character might be completely different – especially people who don’t have a lot of self-esteem might walk into a trap like that… so for me, trying to be the best version of myself is something I do for myself, because it makes me feel good – needless to say the things you listed help in that process ;)

    1. Sann (admin) says:

      It might not totally stop it but if you’re a happy positive person and they got less to talk about then when you are always negative and complaining. And yeah you always have people who point out something negative about everyone thats true.

      I believe that to that you should be the best version of yourself, thats why these tips aren’t there to change you as a person. You should always be yourself if people don’t like you that way it’s their loss. You also can’t be everyones friend but these tips just help with being an overall more likeable person. You should never lose who you really are to make someone like you, they aren’t worth it.

      Yea it should be something you do for yourself, I noticed that being more positive really helps me to live a happier life :]

      1. yukulicious says:

        Totally! :)
        Just seeing how my postivie attitude makes other people happy is so great and actually gives me a great feeling of accomplishment.
        For example I try to smile a lot, even when I’m tired and I actually had a situation were an elderly couple talked to me just to say how beautiful my smile is and how happy they are that I smiled at them because they see so many young people running around with grumpy faces all the time. So me smiling didn’t only lift my own mood but kind of made their day a little bit happier too and I think that’s beautiful. :)

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